Monday was a great day. I spent it out and about. First, I started out the day with lots of sunshine and music while on my way to my doctor's office for acupuncture. It was a great session and when I was done I felt so refreshed. After my visit with my doctor I continued with the music and sunshine. My phone was selecting just the right music to wake me up and smile. So from there I met up with two of the best woman I know for a viewing of Alice in wonderland 3-D. I thought the movie was done pretty well. It was funny watching them jump back in their seats when stuff was coming at them. Lol Not that I didn't jump a few times. The only part I had a problem with was the music they played when the mad hatter was doing his weird dance. I was like I know it needed to be something weird, but that selection was just plain weak! So after the movie I got invited to come over and have a gluten free dinner. See Shelia(a.k.a. Momma rice) Found out she has a certain disease (that I can't remember the name) and is now eating gluten free to help out in the healing process and her overall health. Works for me. So instead of going to the market closest to the theater (my work) on my day off. They took me to my old store. Which worried me for a second. That is where the infamous ex works. The one that I blogged about in first blog. Well I sat with the idea for a few seconds then said “Yeah that is fine, I think that I am ready and I don't care anymore.” So we made our way there. She was not working, but I got to see a lot of other people that I haven't seen in long time. I gave a lot of great hugs and love. I also got a lot of great hugs back and love back. I am blessed in the fact I know a lot of great people. I miss a lot of people over at the store. I do not however miss working there. So we left there and I hung out with the Rice family. For those reading this that don't know who that is. They are the family of one of my dearest friends that past away last may Ian Rice. So I hung out with his dad (David), Bri, and Momma Rice. It was a lot of fun. They are quite the bunch even with Ian not being there. Momma rice and I talked a lot about gluten free things. I am very excited for her in entering the next chapter in her life. She is very excited as well. They also talk about and showed pictures of the day they spread Ian's ashes at the coast. They got some great pictures. It was a perfect day. Sunny, Warm, and just perfect. I wish I had some on here to share. They also gave me one of his beanies to have that he got by beating his dad in a game of pool. That was very nice. Other than that hat I have Ian's ninja turtles trilogy dvd set. So then eventually they took me home. As we got into the car it started snowing...lol...yeah middle of march. I guess last year it snowed up through April. After I got home I connected with an old work friend. Once again I am blessed to know so many great people. It was a very nice day away from my home and being out in the world. I planned it that way. Because my next day was suppose to be all about being at home....well it most definitely was.
Tuesday started out with the fire alarm going off. Way before my alarm was suppose to go off. What a way to start the day. I really actually wasn't mad. I took it as my time to get up. I had lots to do today. So I put on my Angels & Airwaves play list that has all the albums in order. Nothing gets me started in the morning better. It was great morning. Spent sometime online doing my routine. Then off I went around my house to start with my massive cleaning of my house. Clean inside of fridge, detail my bathroom, and cleaned the floors completely just to name a few. I really got all of that done. Plus the normal laundry and kitchen duties. What was the spark that got me to do all of this. Well I do clean on regular basis, but this time I was actually planning to have some friends over for a movie night. Lol Well that was the plan anyways. Well that was the part of the day that failed. It sucks when you base your whole day around something to have one of them tell you last minute the can't be there. Especially when that comes over Facebook not even a call or text. And the other “lost track of time”... Coooool. I know why the other couldn't be there and I hadn't talked to him in almost a week. shakes head. I am bothered by it falling apart. More importantly it brought up a real sadness of missing my close friends. My birthday coming up worries me if this is any indication of my current group of friends. I guess I will more focus on just spending the day with myself. I'm sure a few will be there. Anyways the video below is a song I think about my close friends. The Chorus is what means the most to me. “Friends.... How many of us have them..”
Sorry for the kinda of downer ending. Its actually a lot tamer then what I am really feeling. It is life and I must feel it and move through it. This too shall pass. Tomorrow is another day.
Today's question for the day is: What do you like to do on your birthday? Is there any traditions you have?
With love and pure D-lite. =)
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Guess what? I am off the day of your birthday!!! So I can hang with you all day , if ya want. We can do crazy stuff like go to the zoo or eat breakfast fro dinner.
ReplyDeleteI don't know man.. I just woke up....
We could always drive to Salem....:)
love you,
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Dang it D! I feel aweful even know I wasn't one o the ones who stood you up! I wish you had text me that night (we normally talk) but I didn't hear from you so I figured you were busy watching movies and hanging with your friends and since I was at 2 concerts I just let ya be.
ReplyDeleteYou still do have real friends, I too felt the lossaspeople moved away or joined the military but in my rough days or even my birthday this year I was reminded of them always being there no matter how far/near.
I can't tell you how much love and importance you mean to my life and it saddens me that you went to so much effort and feel sad by the outcome.
It saddens me that since when has fb become the way to communicate invitations? Really if someone makes plans with you at least have the curtosey (sp?) to tell someone by calling or texting. (I'm not trying to offend anyone but I just dot get fb sometimes when it's situations like this)
I'm always here for you D
Hey D! This sucks, even if you're over it by now. As a wise friend once said, "Feelings are like the weather, constantly changing." (Thank Goodness!)
ReplyDeleteAnyways, I was recently stood up, twice. I got rejected from not one, but two jobs that I REEEEAAAALY wanted, my parents are getting a divorce after thirty years, and I'm a little down about it all. But, I don't like to talk about it to people because I don't want to be a downer.
That being said... I wish that I could have been with you on this night... I really appreciate that you talk about things that bug you... and I know that even though you have tough times, you are the source of D-Lite Extrodinaire and you are an inspiration to talk about all of our feelings!
Lovin you D!!
♥, Jess :)